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The Band Perry: 2011 CMA New Artist of the Year

Kimberly Michele Durham — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 20:55:21 +0000

The Band Perry: 2011 CMA New Artist of the Year By Holly Gleason “We’re still childlike,” confessed multi-instrumentalist/vocalist Neil Perry of The Band Perry. “We romanticize the business and the stuff that goes into it. But there’s a place where … “ …

Super Bowl XLVI Halftime Show

Kimberly Michele Durham — Mon, 06 Feb 2012 06:36:53 +0000

Reblogged from K*Chele Magazine:

Madonna shared the stage with LMFAO, Nicki Minaj, MIA and Cee Lo Green, during the Super Bowl XLVI (46) half-time show, in what is being called the best half-time show since Prince performed. Though impossible to please everyone, the technical-spectacle had Madonna’s flair and touch of class throughout. The set-list was a mix of both familiar and new; each song flowed into the next with a unique twist. Her use of the field was a feast for the eyes, using elements worthy of attention from those who watched. …

OSCARS® APP IS NOW LIVE

Kimberly Michele Durham — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 21:01:04 +0000

Reblogged from K*Chele Magazine:

OSCARS® APP IS NOW LIVE ON THE APP STORE FOR IPAD, IPHONE AND IPOD TOUCH, AND IT’S FREE Award-Winning Second Screen Experience Launches With Key Enhancements: Even More Video, the Oscar® My Picks Game, And New Watching And Sharing Features This year’s official Oscars App is now live on the App Store for iPad, iPhone and iPod touch, providing fans unparalleled access to the 84th Academy Awards®. Developed by the Academy and Disney/ABC Television Group’s Digital Media Team, the Oscars App is designed to …

The Battle Isn’t Over Because They’re Home

Kimberly Michele Durham — Tue, 24 Jan 2012 07:08:28 +0000

Reblogged from K*Chele Magazine:

“The Battle Isn’t Over Because They’re Home… It’s Just The Beginning Of Victory” – Understanding the Impact a Returning War Deployed Soldier Has on the Family – (North Carolina – December 8, 2011) Self-Published Author, Kimberly Michele Durham, answers what’s next in her book “The Battle Isn’t Over Because They’re Home… It’s Just The Beginning Of Victory.” This quick, easy read, is packed with information and will stir discussion between those faced with deployment. …

- Understanding the Impact a Returning War Deployed Soldier Has on the Family -

Summers 364 Debut Album Giveaway

Kimberly Michele Durham — Tue, 24 Jan 2012 06:50:22 +0000

Reblogged from K*Chele Magazine:

Contest starts this Wednesday, the 25th. If you like Def Leppard, you’ll love Summers. Don’t miss your chance to win their yet to be released debut album!

Oscars Nominations Announcement LIVE Stream 1/24/12

Kimberly Michele Durham — Tue, 24 Jan 2012 06:40:26 +0000

Reblogged from K*Chele Magazine:

Military Family Christmas

Kimberly Michele Durham — Sat, 24 Dec 2011 20:36:28 +0000

Twas the night before Christmas

Prayers and tears were heard

Not every home

Was filled with joyful words

So many families

Separate from their own

They had a soldier

That wasn’t home

Some had decorated

But not too much

Some had not

To emotional to touch

They had been through

A lot of lonely days

Others had forgotten these families

During the holiday’s

With a slight turn

I looked over my shoulder

There on the wall

A picture of a soldier

Standing in uniform

Waving good-bye

Smiling proudly

As if saying, it’ll be fine

Then I thought

Of those families together

Do they know of

This sacrifice, this endeavor

Most will awake

To presents under the tree

Be with loved ones

And filled with glee

This family here

Like many more

Will be alone

Or carry a void

For the soldier

Who isn’t here

Off at war, pullin duty,

For those, dedication is clear

I wonder if others

Thought tonight

Of the families

Hurting each night

Did they, shed a tear

Say a prayer

Or only dream

And not really care

I could feel the love

In this house that I stood

And knew they had

What others should

My eyes welled up

As I turned to go

I said a prayer

Not, Ho Ho Ho

As I left that home

And flew outta sight

I would be changed

Forever that night

Merry Christmas to you all, I hope you’re holiday’s are bright!

Written by: Kimberly Michele Durham

12.1.2004

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Kimberly Michele Durham — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 02:40:31 +0000

There have been so many wonderful people come into my life and many great moments throughout 2011 and I’m extremely thankful for each of them. Friendships made in prior years have blossomed and colleague relationships have more than exceeded anything I could’ve imagined. YOU… family, friends, clients, colleagues and fans, have enhanced my life; thank you!

I’ve remained true to who I am, held on to the values of my upbringing and it’s served me well; and makes up what I call Southern~ality. Some of these traits have impressed, shocked and at times left some looking for a false-hood, only to learn that they are as real as I am.

It took years of soul searching to realize these things about myself and it was quite liberating once I took hold of who I was, and with confidence in tow, doors began to open that I once thought were impossible.

If I could only give you one piece of advice going into 2012 it would be, always stay true to yourself and if you’re not sure, search yourself until you learn. Pretending to be anyone else is an insult to the phenomenal person that is you.

We cannot please everyone nor convince some to give us a chance, but if we do what’s right and be ourselves, when we reach the end there’ll be no regrets.

So many people have asked me what my tagline: Southern~ality at its finest means…

Southern~ality [suhth-ern-al-i-tee] inhabitant, character, distinctive/unique qualities, attitude, and dialect of one from the south (southern US states); socially appealing, determined, unwavering, one from the country.

As this year comes to a close, reflect and let go. Don’t let worries and those who don’t believe in you hitch a ride into the New Year. Hold on to those who support and love you, and have proven so by their actions.

I’ve spent over half of my life freely giving, caring for and loving others; which has increased significantly the past few years. With it have come knowledge, disappointment and opportunities. Learning from this makes it all worthwhile and allows me to head into 2012 armed with what each has taught me.

Those who only want you in their life to better themselves are dead weight. Fill your circle with the ones who are willing to work with you; it’s about helping each other.

Drop the dead weight! Walk in to the New Year with confidence, a list of goals, supportive people and follow your dream.

Thank you to all my fans, supporters, promoters and advertisers! Because of you, K*Chele magazine is circulating in 31 countries and has been accepted by: CMA on 10/25 * OSCARS on 10/31 * GRAMMYS on 11/30 * GOLDEN GLOBES on 12/15 * BET on 12/16. It has grown far beyond my expectations in its first year and a half and I know more exciting things are to come.

K*Chele Designs has also grown and has been through some changes, with more coming in 2012. I’m grateful for the opportunity to have met and worked with so many talented folks and am excited about our future.

As always, you can keep up with me throughout the year on Facebook, Twitter, Google+, LinkedIn, KCheleDesigns.com and the brand new KCheleMagazine.com

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, may all your dreams come true! Southernly, K*Chele

Twilight Breaking Dawn Pt. 1 Premiere Review

Kimberly Michele Durham — Fri, 18 Nov 2011 10:04:54 +0000

Twilight Breaking Dawn Pt. 1 Premiere Review

Theatre: Grand 18 – Winston-Salem, NC

Sold out like many others. Oddly the long lines expected weren’t present and we quickly discovered why upon entering the theatre. It was full an hour before Showtime, leaving several of us sitting down front. These have got to be the worst seats I’ve ever sat in and with a cramp in my neck; I now have to go back so I can watch the movie on the entire screen. If you’ve sat in these seats you know what I’m referring to, if you haven’t… you’re looking up and left to right the entire time, with the added dizziness when things on the screen are moving fast. Needless to say, every seat may have been sold, but were not occupied.

Movie: Overall disappointing, but don’t let that discourage you. The movie fills in and builds up to the finale with a lot of the scenes being necessary.

The movie begins with Jacob ripping off his shirt as he phases into his wolf alter ego, angry over Edward and Bella’s upcoming wedding. You’re swept up in the magic and emotions of the wedding, honeymoon and that which follows, to be left wanting more action and scenes.

As they attempt to let you in on what it’s like to hear the wolf pack thoughts, the word cheesy instantly pops in your mind. This scene was overdone and would have served the film better left out or at least kept to a minimum.

Unexpected comedy is welcome and appreciated throughout when you’re not really looking for it, as is the realism of Bella with child and the death that follows birth. The long awaited sex scene will leave a mark and a mess (lol).

Jacob remains faithful to his character, but there’s quite a bond between him and the Cullen’s not seen before. True to character, Edward has a moment of Bella desertion, but the apology from his action leads to a special bonding moment adding to the romance of the film.

Did you stay after the credits? Well if you didn’t, you missed it. As the movie ends with excitement, the after credits surprise gives you a taste of what’s to come and lets you ponder what you think it means. Who exactly is he referring to… could be one of two people, but you’ll have to wait until part 2 comes out to see. While on the subject of exciting cliffhangers and questions answered, Jacob imprints and it’s a very interesting choice; one that will definitely lead to some challenges.

Should you go see the movie, absolutely! Just be sure to go when you can get a good seat.

Written By: K*Chele

Are You Looking In The Rear View?

Kimberly Michele Durham — Mon, 17 Oct 2011 01:45:20 +0000

Are you looking in the rear view?

Life has been rather eventful lately and sparked the writer within, yet again. There are times when the world seems to be coming down on you, people leaving you, others taking more than they give and on and on. For the most part, there’s not much you can do… but you can always control YOU!

Ask yourself this question… Am I looking into the rear view or the one being looked at?

If you’re someone who puts others before yourself, you’re the one being looked at in the rear view and if you’re someone concerned more about yourself, you’re the one looking into the rear view.

Most people would never admit out loud, that they’re looking in the rear view and some are so caught up in their own world that they don’t realize it. While looking through the rear view you miss the important things, the fun things, the people who really matter and often find yourself losing the very people you need the most.

Just because everyone else is in a hurry, doesn’t mean you have to be and being in a hurry doesn’t mean you’re going to reach your destination faster. Think of all the big and exciting things that have happened in your life and career this year. Do you believe those happened because of what you did? Or was it the help of others that allowed those moments to enter your life?

Were you in such a hurry that you missed a friend’s tears, a family member in need, maybe you forgot those who helped you obtain the achievement you were rushing to or simply missed the scenery on the way. The world we live in today is all about me – me – me and how quickly another can do for you and people are so quick to speak that they don’t realize they are being caught in their own lies and telling others to do, what they fail to do themselves.

Are you looking in the rear view? If you are, I challenge you to come from behind it and see the world the way those standing in the rear view see it. You may learn to be a better you, realize it’s not all about you, but those who believe in you. You’ll discover the beauty in helping others when everyone else passes them by and hopefully, see what others seen in you all along.

Would you rather be surrounded by those who are using you or those who truly care about you? Don’t let life or career dictate who you become. Don’t be the one looking in the rear view watching everything and everyone fade in the distance; be the one taking it all in.

We’ve all been the one looking in the rear view at some point in our lives and I’m grateful for the struggles that have taught me there’s always someone who needs help, and that sometimes that someone is YOU!

With Love: Kimberly Michele Durham